tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post1992540147954847777..comments2024-03-06T06:00:00.509-08:00Comments on plufrompdx: Change is in the airUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-2383109430110592982016-07-28T07:11:35.336-07:002016-07-28T07:11:35.336-07:00Tree: "I need a lot of freedom in order to co...Tree: "I need a lot of freedom in order to connect in that way." This pretty much sums it up. <br />I've spent a lot of time thinking about why it is that I cannot function well with a live-in partner. I don't think there is an answer beyond 'because that's how I am'. Yes, I do have to honor that about myself. It's not a defect, it's not something that needs to be fixed, it's just how I am. And, I am grateful that I have the financial ability to live alone.<br /><br />(Oh, also not poly or having fidelity issues - on either side)<br /><br />Thanks for your comment!ehttp://plufrompdx.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-25080794525661347992016-07-24T09:09:47.108-07:002016-07-24T09:09:47.108-07:00Good for you for finding a way to honor love and c...Good for you for finding a way to honor love and commitment for yourselves, both as individuals and as members of a partnership. <br /><br />I'm someone who doesn't fit into boxes well and while I'm not currently in a partnership, when I have been, it never worked for me to do things in a "mainstream" way. Not because of fidelity issues - I'm not polyamourous - but just because I'm not in an in the box type person and this is as true for me in partnership as in anything else.<br /><br />I need a lot of freedom in order to connect in that way. Maybe that's part of it. I don't know.<br /> <br />Or maybe it's about the pets! I like that and think I'll borrow it. ;-)<br /><br />ZCTree Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07982787927704665380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-66242367238367173272016-07-21T06:51:12.039-07:002016-07-21T06:51:12.039-07:0035Jupe: Thank you for the hope! I am cautiously o...35Jupe: Thank you for the hope! I am cautiously optimistic that this is the best way for us to go forward. I'll let you know!<br /><br />Secret Agent: We had the typical 'living together with too many pets' arrangement. Ok, I just threw in the pets, but what the heck. Now we will be living apart with fewer pets in each household. Look at me trying to make it about the pets, ha! It's about the humans. ehttp://plufrompdx.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-50284497351711744122016-07-20T12:36:11.210-07:002016-07-20T12:36:11.210-07:00I guess I'm fuzzy on what the living arrangeme...I guess I'm fuzzy on what the living arrangement was before, but if you are both happy with the change that's all that matters. So congratulations!Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-90259986815198808002016-07-19T23:21:40.310-07:002016-07-19T23:21:40.310-07:00This is an interesting idea. I hope it works out w...This is an interesting idea. I hope it works out well for both of you. :) (And I'm still here!) Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-37096887581902196282016-07-19T06:20:19.686-07:002016-07-19T06:20:19.686-07:00Thank you for the happy dance! I hope it continue...Thank you for the happy dance! I hope it continues to be a smooth transition.ehttp://plufrompdx.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-62565028662464032802016-07-19T03:58:36.479-07:002016-07-19T03:58:36.479-07:00Well, change can be hard but also very, very refre...Well, change can be hard but also very, very refreshing. I so happy you two are finding new ways to be together and that it is going smoothly. Doing my happy dance for you!<br /><br />8thdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17139355263412766126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-19110305102666627762016-07-18T18:06:02.319-07:002016-07-18T18:06:02.319-07:00Thank you for the happiness! Thank you for the happiness! ehttp://plufrompdx.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-54309936019141474962016-07-18T17:46:35.511-07:002016-07-18T17:46:35.511-07:00Well, now. ♥ that you're happy. Happy for you ...Well, now. ♥ that you're happy. Happy for you (both).Middle Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12334580430376973159noreply@blogger.com