tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post4608914486708714210..comments2024-03-06T06:00:00.509-08:00Comments on plufrompdx: What's nextUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-54738742672616488892011-11-03T13:14:07.716-07:002011-11-03T13:14:07.716-07:00Thank you, all, for great advice. I know that the...Thank you, all, for great advice. I know that there is no timeline for this sort of loss, but societal pressures do mount up.<br /><br />I did shower. Yay for me! I have not yet made it to work. I'll get there. Eventually.<br /><br />Greg: this hair wasn't stylish, by any stretch of the imagination!<br />John Gray: I love your blog.<br />elf: sinking into myself ~ that's a good description.<br />t.o.d: agreed. thank you.<br />weese: done :-)<br />8: tea, yes, good...ehttp://plufrompdx.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-53155280862401313502011-11-03T11:43:46.541-07:002011-11-03T11:43:46.541-07:00I would love to give you great advice on how to gr...I would love to give you great advice on how to grieve but I suck at it. I tend to agree with all the other comments here. A shower and a cup of tea seem like great first steps. And then probably some rest. Lots and lots of rest.<br /><br />Of course, IF you feel like talking, I'm always here . . .8thdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17139355263412766126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-40888122634969892182011-11-03T09:33:04.488-07:002011-11-03T09:33:04.488-07:00i would definetly go with the shower as the next s...i would definetly go with the shower as the next step.<br />i wouldn't plan past that yet.<br />shower...just go shower :)weesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15618625306145677343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-41537604278862491382011-11-02T22:37:25.386-07:002011-11-02T22:37:25.386-07:00I can't even imagine . . .
but I don't th...I can't even imagine . . . <br />but I don't think talking it out . . . well, that just isn't me. <br /><br />Take your time.Middle Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12334580430376973159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-71949705097435212062011-11-02T17:57:27.789-07:002011-11-02T17:57:27.789-07:00When my mother died, I likened my response to a wo...When my mother died, I likened my response to a wounded animal - I just wanted to be alone and sink within myself - alone to figure out how to deal with the enormity of her absence from my life.<br /><br />I blame Oprah for the idea that 'talking it out' heals all wounds. It doesn't. You need to do what's right for you.<br /><br />I think taking a shower would be so much more therapeutic than talking it out. But that's just me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-23671599519492277412011-11-02T17:55:44.069-07:002011-11-02T17:55:44.069-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-90963368118818352162011-11-02T12:26:34.137-07:002011-11-02T12:26:34.137-07:00elizabeth
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hreet...elizabeth<br />thank you for your kind comment<br />xx<br />hreetings from walesJohn Going Gentlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14958171262765033946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8701114292967665697.post-39611792975136006452011-11-02T11:33:54.443-07:002011-11-02T11:33:54.443-07:00I think you should give yourself permission to do ...I think you should give yourself permission to do whatever you feel (or don't feel) like doing right now. There are no rules for grief. Take care of you - everyone else can take a back seat. You are allowed to react to this pain.<br /><br />Also, dirty hair is a style these days - feel free to sport it for as long as you like.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com