Well, it ain't good.
Stage 4, spread across the midline to both lungs, metastasized to the adrenal and lymphatic systems. Surgery is not an option, radiation is not an option, and the oncologist doesn't think that chemo will be worth the risk. The chemo won't significantly increase the length of her life, and will make her sick and weaker which could, in fact, shorten what time she has left.
And, what time does she have left? He wouldn't give an estimate but said it would be measured in months rather than years.
I'm not ready to lose my mom. Obviously I don't have a choice about that. My choice is to see her every day and spend as much time as I can with her.